Frequently Asked Questions

What is a humanist wedding?

A humanist ceremony is a very special way to get married – you can make it as personal and unique as you like.  My job as a humanist celebrant is to get to know you and write a ceremony that tells your unique love story in the way you want.  It is legally recognised and can take place anywhere (except for churches and registry offices).

The ceremony can be very flexible, and you decide on how long it lasts and what happens during it.  You can include readings and music that is meaningful to you both and include other traditions or rituals such as lighting candles or hand fasting (to help you officially “tie the knot”!) It really is up to you.  Anything goes! As your celebrant, I will guide you through all your options and help bring together your ideas to get your perfect wedding ceremony.

Do I have to be humanist to have a humanist wedding?

No – although many people who are not religious find that they share a lot of humanist beliefs and values. A humanist is a person who believes they have one life and resolves to live a moral and fulfilling life while respecting and protecting the rights of others and the planet. I aim to ensure an inclusive ceremony where everyone, regardless of their beliefs, feels welcomed.

What is the process?

Choosing the right humanist celebrant is important. I offer a no obligation zoom where we can have a chat to help you decide if I’m the right fit for you both. If you decide I am, we will have several meetings so that we can get to know each other and work together to create your ideal ceremony. This can be in person or on Zoom, whatever works best for all involved. You can choose your readings, music, symbolic acts and vows – I’m happy to support you with this in any way you need me to.  

We don’t live in Northern Ireland. Can we get married here?

Absolutely! A humanist marriage conducted in Northern Ireland is legally recognised anywhere in the world. No matter where you live, if you want to come to beautiful Northern Ireland to get married, we can work together to craft your perfect ceremony.

How much does it cost?

I charge a flat fee which includes;

  • A minimum of two meetings in person or online

  • Drafting your bespoke wedding ceremony (including any edits required)

  • A rehearsal (if requested and subject to diary availability)

  • Liaising with your wedding team at the venue– photographers, videographers, ring bearers, readers etc.

  • Delivering your ceremony and legally officiating your marriage

  • A pdf keepsake of your ceremony script

  • Mileage (for venues further than 60 miles from my home address additional travel fees may be applicable)

  • Full Public Liability and Professional Indemnity Insurance

    Please note that there are two additional fees.

    £44 to the General Register Office of Northern Ireland which is payable no matter what type of ceremony you have and £40 per couple to Humanist UK (paid directly to them).

    For further information about costs - please get in touch.

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